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Building
your tomorrow

Personality Development Skill

Personal development or personality development is the technique of increasing life skills that are necessary to bring about success and happiness in your life. Life skills constitute the platform on which your entire career is built. Thus, your success or failure depends on the skills you choose. If your career starts on a wrong set of skills, you are bound to fail. You may experience success, but it cannot be long-lasting. Therefore, in order to see sustainable success and happiness, you need to develop yourself first. Personality development is not just about your dressing or make up skills; it also concerns your flair for communication.

Meaning of Personality Development

The various activities implemented for the development of an organized design of attitude, traits, etiquettes and habits that make you distinct is referred to as personality development.

Need for Personality Development

Personality development is not an additional requirement in life. It is the fundamental need to become successful. If you are not a sensible person, your knowledge or efficiency at work are of no use. The first and foremost requirement for success is developing skills that make you presentable. After this, you can utilize other qualifications to impress people.

Pillars of Personality Development

Personality development stands on the following three skills.

Be aware of your desires and thoughts

Love yourself

Stay who you are

Developing Personality
# Expand your interests

The more you nurture new skills the more interesting you become. On meeting new people, you can express your views and exchange your ideas with them.

# Be a good listener

You can be liked by others only when you make them feel important. Look the speaker in the eye and listen to every word she says. People feel good when they realize that their words matter to the person they are speaking to.

# State what you feel

Talking to a person with no opinion is a boring experience. Would you be able to extend a conversation if a listener does not provide any input? Similarly, if you do not respond to a conversation it becomes monotonous. When you come up with a distinct perspective, it broadens the thought process of other participants in the conversation.

# Be a good speaker

Striking a conversation and keeping it interesting depends on the extent of your knowledge. When you have a lot of information to contribute you must be aware of the way to talk about it. You should ensure the interest of the listeners. You should also not demean those who have not heard about the topic you are speaking about.

# Do not change yourself

Do not try to change yourself to be a part of a group. Believe me, it is a tiresome and artificial practice. Each person has her distinct traits. When you try to imitate the attributes of another person you become a carbon copy. There is no authenticity in your approach and the people you are trying to approach may as well see through your manners.

# Expand your acquaintance

Try to meet new people, especially those who are not like you. This way, not only do you learn about alternative perspectives, but also come to know about different cultures.

# Look at the humorous aspect of life

If you have a good sense of humor, people will love you. At times, comic relief acts as a much required distraction. A person, who can add fun to a gloomy moment, has the potential to attract listeners.

# Display an affirmative outlook

No one wants to be in the company of negative minded and complaining people. In fact, many people run away at the sight of such cribbing individuals. You should demonstrate a personality, which illuminates a room the moment you enter. Look out for the best in everyone, smile at everybody and cheer up people around you.

# Respect People

Be honest and true to your word. You will be respected by others. The more you respect others, the more you learn to respect yourself.

# Be supportive

A person who is supportive is endeared by others. Don’t you like it when people support your views, encourage you and understand your problems? If you display similar kind of attitude, you too will be appreciated by others.

What I saw and learnt?

The story dates back to my days in USA. My soldier training was over and I had made many friends. We used to frequent restaurants and clubs together. In our group there was a young man named Nicholas. He was fun loving and everyone wanted to befriend him. He always spoke about interesting things in an interesting way. Even though, he had knowledge about several things, he never boasted about it. He respected everyone and had no inhibition in making friends. What I liked about him was that he was a keen listener. He would listen to everything that a person would tell him and always came up with the appropriate response.

In fact, it was Nicholas who unknowingly inspired me to learn more about personality development and display a pleasing personality. I realized that to be a likeable person, one has to do things that appeal to others. I understood that if I judge others without understanding their problems, I might not be liked. So, I decided to be supportive of unique ideas of my fellow soldiers and encouraged them to come up with more interesting thoughts. Till today, I remember the way he used to talk to people. His positive approach made him a star among everyone.

He who Disperses Knowledge

When Dr. Athiqul H. Laskar (www.lifeskillsathiqul.com) decided to establish the Conant Institute in Assam, India he wanted to sow the seeds of a confident India. Starting from North East India to the rest of the world, his teaching techniques have crossed boundaries of time and topography. Over twenty five thousand students have been benefitted by his teachings and experienced positive change in their lives.

Realize who you are and develop your approach. Love yourself – it is a pre-requisite of being loved by others. Develop your personal thoughts and touch the pinnacle of success.

Conant Institute :

Building your Tomorrow Conant Institute is a complete training centre where stress is placed on comprehensive development of character and skill. Here, candidates are made to attend lessons in motivational training, personality development and career counselling based on academic qualification.

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